Matchmaker

I've been single for a little over 2 years now, after being married for almost 25. We were basically each others first long term relationship. So dating is somewhat foreign to me, and a little scary at times. My friends would like to help me move things a long by fixing me up with their ideal guy, but can friends really help you find that special someone? Do they really know what it is you are looking for? "But he's a really nice guy" I'm told a lot. Well, I know quite a few nice guys, but I don't feel anything romantic for them. So I gave it some thought. What is it exactly that I'm looking for in a partner? I know what I want now is very different than what I wanted in my 20s. We all have a physical preference that attracts us to someone. I'm attracted to tall solid built men with somewhat large facial features. I'm also physically attracted to men with dark hair and dark eyes. Of course most men my age are going grey, like myself, which I also find attractive. Facial hair is a plus, but not necessary. Then once I find them physically attractive I look for chemistry. This is a very important factor when finding a lifetime partner. I think there are several types of chemistry.

Type #1: Tear-each-other’s-clothes-off chemistry: This can be confused with lust, but not if you only feel this way for one person.

Type #2: We’re-so-comfortable chemistry: They are easy to talk to and you can be yourself around them.

Type #3: We-laugh-like-crazy-together chemistry: Who doesn't like to laugh and have fun together?

Type #4: We’re-so-complementary chemistry: While its important to have the same values, you are also attracted to people who are different than you. We are drawn to people who bring out the best in us.

Type #5: We-have-so-much-in-common chemistry: This is a huge plus if you spend a lot of time with each other.

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