Woman vs Woman

Why do some woman bash other woman?  Do they feel they are in competition, and if so, for what? Men, jobs, social status, or material things?  These woman are just down right mean and insecure. These woman work tirelessly to create a false version of themselves based on someone else's dreams, plans and goals. I will say I may not like all woman, but I have never tried to compete with one. Except that one time in 8th grade when my friend Jenny and I competed for the attention of the same boy, but neither one of us got him so that really wasn't worth it for either one of us in the end. Now that I'm a grown woman I usually get my heart broken in silence instead of trying to compete, as I watch them sail off into the sunset together. That has only happened once since my divorce, and Johnny Depp and his child bride are already calling it quits. Touche!

I tend to get along better with woman that are closer to my mom's age, and woman young enough to be my daughters age. Woman that are older than me like how I listen to them, and look up to them for advise. Younger woman, I think, like me because I compliment them and build them up, and never talk down to them. For the most part men can be clumped into a couple of categories, but woman have multiple categories, and depending on the situation you can get very confused by them. I do, and I'm one of them. Woman can be vindictive, back stabbing, jealous, emotional creatures, who would do just about anything to get what they want.

 I know what you are thinking. Men can behave this way too, but in all honesty I haven't encountered as many men that act this way as I do woman. Woman who admire other woman's strength can only do so because they know what is required to develop that strength. These woman haven't the time to compete or the energy to waste on envy because they understand and identify with the challenging nature of success. I didn't write this blog to bash woman. I wrote this blog to unite woman, and to make them see that woman need other woman to succeed. We need to stick together, and stop competing because there is nothing better than the support, love, dedication and friendship of another woman. They can really be a lifeline, confidant, nurturer, and a confidence booster if you meet the right ones. Lets face it, they know where the best shoe deals are too...

                                                                       My Bestie